Anxious thoughts are a common problem for parents and children alike - arising from school, work, relationships and uncertainty about the future.
When these thoughts become frequent fixtures in the mind, they can lead to unhelpful coping mechanisms - like avoiding worrying situations, having tantrums and changing eating habits. If these thoughts take over they can even lead to depression.
So, how do you tackle these anxious thoughts as they appear? How do you help your child to do the same? In this film, Dr Anna Colton shows you a breathing exercise that can help to soothe anxiety and panicâŠ
Dr Anna demonstrates a breathing technique to manage anxiety.
Dr Anna's technique
- You may have heard people say, "take a deep breath in", when you're panicking, but, although breathing is a great way to help manage anxiety or panic, we should be focusing on the out breath, not the in breath.
- When we're anxious, we tend to breathe in a very shallow, fast way - which can lead to us feeling shaky, nauseous and dizzy, or developing headaches.
- Take a deep breath in, and trace round your hand with your other hand, on the out breath.
- Continue to do this a few times in a row, until you feel calmer and more in control.
Try this technique yourself, or, if your child is struggling with anxiety, you could talk them through it step-by-step.
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